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A List of “Men’s Rights” Issues That Feminism Is Already Working On

Feminists do not want you to lose custody of your children. The assumption that women are naturally better caregivers is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not like commercials in which bumbling dads mess up the laundry and competent wives have to bustle in and fix it. The assumption that women are naturally better housekeepers is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to have to make alimony payments. Alimony is set up to combat the fact that women have been historically expected to prioritize domestic duties over professional goals, thus minimizing their earning potential if their “traditional” marriages end. The assumption that wives should make babies instead of money is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want anyone to get raped in prison. Permissiveness and jokes about prison rape are part of rape culture, which is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want anyone to be falsely accused of rape. False rape accusations discredit rape victims, which reinforces rape culture, which is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to be lonely and we do not hate “nice guys.” The idea that certain people are inherently more valuable than other people because of superficial physical attributes is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to have to pay for dinner. We want the opportunity to achieve financial success on par with men in any field we choose (and are qualified for), and the fact that we currently don’t is part of patriarchy. The idea that men should coddle and provide for women, and/or purchase their affections in romantic contexts, is condescending and damaging and part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to be maimed or killed in industrial accidents, or toil in coal mines while we do cushy secretarial work and various yarn-themed activities. The fact that women have long been shut out of dangerous industrial jobs (by men, by the way) is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to commit suicide. Any pressures and expectations that lower the quality of life of any gender are part of patriarchy. The fact that depression is characterized as an effeminate weakness, making men less likely to seek treatment, is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to be viewed with suspicion when you take your child to the park (men frequently insist that this is a serious issue, so I will take them at their word). The assumption that men are insatiable sexual animals, combined with the idea that it’s unnatural for men to care for children, is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want you to be drafted and then die in a war while we stay home and iron stuff. The idea that women are too weak to fight or too delicate to function in a military setting is part of patriarchy.

Feminists do not want women to escape prosecution on legitimate domestic violence charges, nor do we want men to be ridiculed for being raped or abused. The idea that women are naturally gentle and compliant and that victimhood is inherently feminine is part of patriarchy.

Feminists hate patriarchy. We do not hate you.

If you really care about those issues as passionately as you say you do, you should be thanking feminists, because feminism is a social movement actively dedicated to dismantling every single one of them. The fact that you blame feminists—your allies—for problems against which they have been struggling for decades suggests that supporting men isn’t nearly as important to you as resenting women. We care about your problems a lot. Could you try caring about ours?

Excerpt from If I Admit That Hating Men is a Thing, Will You Stop Turning it Into a Self-fulfilling Prophecy?, by Lindy West  (via lilac-time)

Agreed, except I understand that alimony exists for a reason and spousal support should be available for BOTH GENDERS

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minn2x:

As a black person this makes me really proud but at the same time it really frustrates me because the news never focus on the positive qualities of blacks which in reality actually out weighs the negatives but the media only focus on the negatives.. why does a 4 year old black boy cussing makes huge media headlines but a 4 year black girl genius does not……that’s what really frustrates me. 

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vegan-yums:

*~Homemade Vegan chick’n nuggets~*

  • Chickie nuggets / Recipe
  • Vegan popcorn chick’n / Recipe
  • Vegan nuggets / Recipe
  • Chick-less Nuggets + Sweet ‘n Spicy Mustard Sauce / Recipe
  • Popcorn tofu / Recipe

*If you’re too lazy to make your own Gardein, Beyond Meat and Boca make delicious chick’n nuggets and strips ^-^

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MY LEAST FAVORITE PART OF ADULTHOOD RIGHT HERE

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Who knows how to seal an autograph on leather?

03.20.14 ♥ 2

witchisnotneutral:

So here’s another nice mess we’ve got ourselves into, internet.
It’s come to my attention that people have been talking a lot recently about a post written by someone called finnyrachel, about Cassandra Cla(i)re bullying her.
Finnyrachel is a woman named Sinead Evans. Honestly, when Sinead put the post up last year, I didn’t pay any attention to it, because I thought it was such obvious garbage people would never be dumb enough to believe it.
… Wrong again, self. Never underestimate the power of human stupidity, especially if the humans have a grudge against someone already and really want to believe they’re evil.
Here’s Sinead’s post on the subject of what a meanie Cassandra Cla(i)re is. 
For those who just want the Cliff Notes instead of having to plough through the bitter ramblings of a loon, here is what finnyrachel/Sinead Evans has to say, in a nutshell:
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Flashback Friday Saturday: my brothers before they got too big and bad for their own good. Lee works on an oil rig now and Nick is a Marine, recently deployed to Afghanistan. Ben is about to be twelve and he’s already has obnoxious as the other two.

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Texas Sportscaster Gives Best Response to Michael Sam’s Coming Out Ever

Best.

Yes. Yes. Yes.

Very classy. Yes.

work, texas.

All of the yes.

Yaaassssss

TEXAS TAKE THIS WIN. FINALLY. HERE IS A WIN

Church!

Did an old white man in Texas really say some cool shit?

Wow this is actually incredible. A+ to this guy.

hahahah I’ve met this guy

welp, something awesome came out of my hometown local news, hell yeah

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